"Just Say No!"
 "...And 'no' is enough for all of us. It’s what other writers have called 'the power of the positive no.'
'No' is enough, even if others expect us to explain ourselves. 'No' is all we owe others.
'No' is a clear setting of our boundaries. 'No'is saying we disagree with the very ask, the assumptions it makes, their interpretation of scriptures and history, the prejudice of others, any need for buying into an argument that another is encouraging, or our feelings, and their pressure, that we’re the ones who need to justify ourselves.
But most of all, 'no' communicates that we have taken a stand we believe in. 'No' takes moral courage. And 'no' is saying to the questioner that we’re really sincere about what we’re doing, we’re not “wishy-washy” people just going along with what is currently politically calculated.
There are many ways to say 'no....'"
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including his, in this issue, saying that we must go beyond just calling bigots hypocrites - the religion itself has to be held accountable. He names names and is right: 'What we’re seeing is the heart of what right-wing religion itself really is, not merely hypocrisy.'"
-- veteran LGBT activist (since 1959) and a founder of LA's Homosexual Information Center in 1968, Billy Glover
and this organization promotes and is a strong advocate for such thinking. He is a perfect fit for the 21st Century American thinking."
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